Members Only Toolkit

πŸ‘‹πŸΌ Hello and welcome to the Members Only Toolkit!

Below are the best resources at my disposal for creating our best selves and leading high performing teams and high performance lives.

The resources (88 and counting…) are broken into 3 sections:

  • Tools, Exercises, and Frameworks

  • Articles, Videos, and Books

  • Coaching Sessions

Every single resource is designed to help you lead yourself or lead a team with agency, clarity, and impact.


*Important thing #1: Each resource will live on its own post, where I will break down how and why to best use the resource.

*Important thing #2: You’ll notice that some resources are linked to their individual post, and some aren’t. This is because I’m building as we go. It wouldn’t be useful to just dump 88 different resources on you without any context, so instead I’ll be publishing 1-2 resource posts per week. Give me a few months and the full Members Only Toolkit will be built out, with more resources to come.


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On to the Toolkit…


πŸ› οΈ Tools, πŸ“ Exercises, and βš–οΈ Frameworks

Tools: From templates to planners, these are things you can incorporate into your daily and weekly rhythm on a consistent basis.

Exercises: Assessments and written exercises that you’ll do one time (or as needed) in order to gain clarity into a specific area.

Frameworks: Mental models, both visual and written, that distill complex topics into actionable insights.

  • πŸ› οΈ 1-Page Weekly Planner

  • πŸ› οΈ 1on1 Meeting Template

  • πŸ› οΈ User Manual Template

  • πŸ“ 5 Voices Assessment

  • πŸ“ Initiative Assessment

  • πŸ“ Energy + Leverage Audit

  • πŸ“ Golden Circle Exercise

  • πŸ› οΈ FWD Productivity System

  • πŸ› οΈ High Performance Planner

  • πŸ› οΈ Education Calls

  • πŸ› οΈ Meeting Agenda Template

  • πŸ› οΈ Quarterly Business Review Template

  • πŸ› οΈ Team Standards Template

  • πŸ› οΈ Proposal Template

  • πŸ› οΈ Energy Checklist

  • πŸ› οΈ Courage Checklist

  • πŸ› οΈ Focal Points

  • πŸ› οΈ Tenets of Mindset Mastery

  • πŸ› οΈ GROW Coaching Model

  • πŸ› οΈ 3 Cs Coaching Model

  • πŸ› οΈ 5x5 Strength Program πŸ’ͺ🏽

  • πŸ› οΈ Builders + Burners Program πŸ’ͺ🏽

  • πŸ› οΈ Bodeefit Program (no equipment needed) πŸ’ͺ🏽

  • πŸ› οΈ Pillars of High Performance

  • πŸ“ Defining our Purpose

  • πŸ“ Growth Plan

  • πŸ“ Leadership Style Assessment

  • πŸ“ Compassionate Leadership Assessment

  • πŸ“ Skills Assessment

  • πŸ“ Team 360 Assessment

  • πŸ“ Task Audit

  • πŸ“ Keep Stop Start Exercise

  • πŸ“ How to Tell a Story

  • πŸ“ Story Workbook

  • πŸ“ Persuasion Planning

  • βš–οΈ The Peace Index

  • βš–οΈ Clarity Chart

  • βš–οΈ The Influence Model

  • βš–οΈ The Persuasion Formula

  • βš–οΈ Influence by Transaction and Transformation

  • βš–οΈ Values Based Conversation

  • βš–οΈ 5 Circles of Influence

  • βš–οΈ Know Yourself to Lead Yourself

  • βš–οΈ The Leader Mirror

  • βš–οΈ Support Challenge Matrix

  • βš–οΈ Skill Will Matrix

  • βš–οΈ Effective Learning

  • βš–οΈ Developing Others

  • βš–οΈ Power of the Medium

  • βš–οΈ Go to the Source

  • βš–οΈ The Responsive Person

  • βš–οΈ Clarity + Control Chart

  • βš–οΈ Eisenhower Matrix

  • βš–οΈ X-Factor

  • βš–οΈ 70:30 Principle

  • βš–οΈ Performance Diagnostic


πŸ“„ Articles, πŸ–₯️ Videos, and πŸ“– Books

Some of the most useful and actionable content I’ve come across that can help us lead ourselves and lead others at a high level.

  • πŸ“– Redwood: A Guide to Leading a Remarkable Life

  • πŸ“– The Guy at the Bar: Notes From a Father Who Lost a Lot but Gained a Little

  • πŸ“„ Managing Oneself

  • πŸ“„ What Makes a Leader?

  • πŸ“„ The Business Case for Happiness

  • πŸ“„ The Effective Executive

  • πŸ“„ Coaching Your Team as a Collective Makes it Stronger

  • πŸ“„ How to Boost EQ

  • πŸ“„ How Stories Drive Growth

  • πŸ“„ The 12 Elements of EQ

  • πŸ“„ Kill Your Goals

  • πŸ“„ Story Principles

  • πŸ“„ We’ve Gotten Radical Candor Wrong

  • πŸ“„ What We (Still) Get Wrong About Emotional Intelligence

  • πŸ–₯️ Developing a Growth Mindset

  • πŸ–₯️ The Hyperactive Hive Mind


Coaching Sessions

Structured inquiry intended to drive clarity, momentum, and action in the most important areas of both self leadership and team leadership. These are the same sessions that I’ve used to coach people at the largest companies in the world and the most promising high growth startups in tech. In these sessions you’ll receive the questions that you can use to coach yourself or others, as well as videos that outline how to make the most of these questions and sessions.

  • Leading Yourself

  • Baselines + Focal Points

  • Modeling the Way

  • Purpose

  • Clarity

  • Courage

  • Energy

  • Influence

  • Emotional Intelligence

  • Productivity

  • Leading Your Team

  • Coaching the Team

  • Culture of Feedback

  • Team Standards

  • Meaningful Meetings

  • The Work

  • Physiology Mastery

  • Mindset Mastery

  • Productivity Mastery

  • Persuasion Mastery