The world is a mirror.

On the person looking back.

How easy is it to blame external sources or circumstances for our own frustrations and failures? Pretty dang easy. I catch myself doing it all the time. It's our co-worker's fault, our spouse's issue, and our friend's stupidity. They are the feather ruffler, and we are simply the bird. It's them, not us...right?

The irony is that in nearly every situatio…