It's not about the pillows.

On the why being greater than the what.

It's 7am. Emily is in the shower getting ready for the day. I am in our room making the bed. First comes straightening the sheets, then straightening the comforter, then finally the pillows.

I start with our sleeping pillows laid perfectly at the head of the bed.

Then the firm striped pillows are laid over the sleeping pillows.

Up next is the gigantic silv…