It's not a nail.

A subtle mindset shift to increase calm and decrease irritability.

Tonight was a good night.

I was in a good mood. The kids were in a good mood. Everything was light and fun. It was one of those rare nights where nothing could have upset me. 

What made me acutely aware of this was when I was walking down the hall by my kids' bedrooms. There was a huge puddle of water in the middle of the hallway, likely from my kids when…