The question that matters most.

And why utility may be more useful than purpose.

What is your highest purpose in life?

Scratch that. 

What is your highest utility in life? 

The former question trips people up too much. It's too lofty. It's too spiritual. It's too esoteric. Forget purpose if it's not a sentiment that resonates with you. (Or run with it if it does.)

Instead, think about your utility in life. This is black and white. Plain…